Reading the invitation, the venue, and the time of day tells you which level to aim for, and when uncertain, it is better to ask the host than to guess
Just be mindful of overly relaxed silhouettes that may look too casual for the office
Style with strappy heels and a statement bag for boss-babe vibes
ohh and big cigars, the longest you can find for added effect, and I forget too add, not all tux have too be the same, you can have weave patterns, different satins and fabric, linings, list goes on, the world is ya oyster, just make sure you have the wallet for it XD J On the contrary
One thing I love about Fall in Southern California is that the temps stay nice and comfortable to still wear dresses (my favorite) well into November